Fat Joe, the legendary rapper from the Bronx, has shared that he recently lost his mother, Marie Del-Carmen Cartagena. In an Instagram tribute, the 54-year-old artist reflected on his mother's legacy and her legacy for his family and community. And while Fat Joe knows he'll never find the words to fully describe how he feels, he shared his heartfelt reflections that identified her strength, selflessness, and everlasting love. But most of all, Joe told her shaped the man he is today.
In a slideshow of family memories, Fat Joe wrote, “Rest in peace to the woman who brought me into this world.” His message made it clear that his mother never had material wealth, and yet she gave them everything they ever needed. Regardless of how much success Joe achieved, his mother remained grounded and deeply committed to the people around her. And still, she became a powerful symbol of pride for the entire family and his music crew.
A Woman of Strength, Loyalty, and Love for Her Community
In contrast to many who might seek a more lavish lifestyle once their children succeed, Fat Joe’s mother refused to leave the Bronx. Despite his financial success, she found joy in staying rooted in the neighborhood she cherished. On the contrary, her humble life was a source of strength, and she served as a symbol of unity within her community. Joe described her as “Ms. Ruby, the Terror Squad Queen,” a woman who loved fiercely and celebrated the accomplishments of everyone in her circle.
However, the grief of losing her husband, Ernesto Delgado, just this year made her death even more difficult. They had experienced an incredible marriage of more than sixty years, and the sadness she felt after his passing became impossible to manage. Fat Joe believes that she died of heartbreak, which highlights the strength of their bond after so many years together. Love such as theirs is difficult to find, and with her passing, a really strong chapter in their family narrative has concluded.
A Final Message Filled With Love, Gratitude, and Remembrance
Despite the sadness, Fat Joe's tribute ended with a message of resilience and appreciation for the love he and his family received. He even thanked the Castro, Cartagena, and Delgado families for their support during this moment. He also reassured everyone that he did everything to care for his mother, and things happen in life that can't be controlled, no matter how right you do things. Still, he promised to continue her legacy and make her proud every step.
"Mommy till I see you again you were my everything, my heart, my whole world," he said in his goodbye. His farewells and promise of dedication went viral, and the hip-hop community immediately responded with love, with icons like Busta Rhymes stating, "Rest peacefully Beautiful Queen," as well as Ja Rule and Questlove, who provided heart and prayer emojis along with thoughtful messages of condolences and support.
Overall, Fat Joe's tribute highlights the unbreakable spirit of a mother and child—and the infinite legacy of a love that knows no limits.
